Is your Aquarius man starting to pull away from you? Is your ideal and ever-loving man suddenly becoming distant and aloof?
It's not you; it's definitely him. Why? Because he's an Aquarius.
The Aquarius man is naturally loving and loyal, but he is a notorious introvert. He likes to deal with his own stuff, on his own terms, and in his own time.
Don't panic, and DON'T do the following:
So when you see signs of him pulling away, don’t panic! Panicking and worrying will only make you do things that can push him further away.
Instead, you can be sure of how your Aquarius man's complex mind works with an in-depth guide like Aquarius Man Secrets.
Nagging and asking him about this will only suffocate him and muddle his thinking. He needs his me-time to think about your relationship and his feelings for you.
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Don’t demand for more of his time
Making him spend more time with you will only delay his coming back to you on his own free will. As much as he loves you, he also values his freedom and independence.
Don’t ask his friends
Seeking the help of his friends or family will not help your cause either. When he pulls away, he’s not likely to tell anyone why and this will feel like you're invading his social circle.
Don’t appear needy
No one loves an independent and confident woman more than the Aquarius man. So don’t be clingy and beg for his attention like a dog waiting for scraps.
An Aquarius man in love
The Aquarius man is not very good in the feelings department. So him pulling away from you can be a sign that he is overwhelmed with his feelings.
He may be tough and strong mentally and physically, but he has a weak and fragile heart. Pulling away from you is a subconscious action to protect his vulnerable heart.
Don't take it personally. Self-preservation is the Aquarius man's natural-born instinct, a question of fight or flight, and he chose the latter.
Is he in love?
Your Aquarius man may have chosen flight, but that doesn't mean he has flown away from you. He is still there but only resolving his inner turmoil on his own.
You can tell if he is devoted to you by his actions. The Aquarius man is not showy with his emotions, so you have to watch out for the subtle signs.
You can always ask directly, of course, but then if he isn't sure himself, how can he give you a definite answer?
Will you ask him? You'll get a direct answer, but you risk affecting his emotion negatively.
Will you let him be? You will be in doubt for some time, but you also let him have his space and alone time.
Your decision can make or break your relationship with him. So choose wisely.
What to do with the aloof Aquarius?
So, what’s to be done? Not much, to be honest.
Your instinct may be to jump in and do damage control with the situation. But don’t, you’ll only make things worse.
You can’t do the things that he needs to do for himself. But there are some things you can do for yourself that can draw out a reaction from him.
No doubt, he'll find his way back to you. But you need to help him decide to come back.
Work on yourself
While waiting for the Aquarius man to come to terms with his feelings, the best thing to do is to work on yourself. You have to convince him that you are a woman who has a life of her own.
You have to make him see that you value your independence and freedom, just like him. Sharing the same values will make him think of you as a long-term partner with whom he can share a meaningful life.
Be a good friend
The Aquarius man values friendship above all relationships. So if you feel like he's taken the romance out of your relationship, don't worry; it's actually a good sign.
What you can do is genuinely be a good friend, not only to him but also to other people. Being a reliable friend will make him see you as his future lifetime companion.
Spice it up
But to be a good friend doesn’t mean to be boring. You still have to spice things up because the Aquarius man hates dull and boring situations.
Add some spontaneity to your daily routine. It can be as simple as walking by the park before doing your errands or even surprising him with a weekend at the beach.
Do something creative
You can also appeal to his artistic and creative side by getting yourself into making arts or crafting. Go do that calligraphy thing you’ve always wanted to try.
Showing your creative side will make him see you in a whole new light. He will also respect you for having the courage to go after your passions.
Exercise your brain muscles
The Aquarius man is first and foremost an intellectual. So he delights in lengthy conversations about topics that he finds engaging.
Reading and learning about his interests can also help you find any shared interests between you. And shared interests never fail to bring people closer together.
It’s not a fun situation when you feel your Aquarius man is pulling away from you. So you need to find other sources of happiness for yourself.
Take your chance to spend more time with your friends. He will be reminded that you are a woman with charm and very fun to be with.
Have a good sense of humor
Don’t take everything seriously. You have to remember that an Aquarius man is a happy-go-lucky kind of guy.
You have to be able to laugh at silly situations, even at your own expense. Your Aquarius man will like it if you can make him crack up from time to time.
Most of the time, the Aquarius man pulls away when he feels that things are going too fast. You need to learn how to be patient, not just with him but with other things in your life.
Don't make him take your relationship to the next level if you feel like he is not ready. Rushing him will not make him come closer to you.
But if things between you have been smooth sailing, using the Aquarius Man Secrets to your advantage can get him to pop the question and commit with you.
Learn to be a good listener
You have to reassure your Aquarius man that you understand what he is going through. Most of the time, he only wants someone to talk to.
Be that person who listens to him without judgment. And he will appreciate your presence in his life much more.
Go on adventures
Go backpacking, go on a cruise, go ahead and do what you want to do. Going on your own adventures will expand your understanding of the world.
The Aquarius man will see you and think that being with you will be an exciting ride. It will reassure him that going long-term with you will not be as bad as he thought.
It sounds simple, but it isn't easy to do. To be genuinely kind is to see the goodness in even the worst kinds of people.
The Aquarius man is attracted to kind people because that's who he really wants to be. You can make him pursue you by showing him your kindness.
Take care of your family
Having a good relationship with your family is the best thing you can do during these troubled times. Family is a bond you can never break.
The Aquarius man appreciates this and is drawn to happy families. Sharing a happy moment with your family will make him consider you as a part of his future family.
As a mysterious being himself, the Aquarius man is drawn to beings that they also find mysterious. You can build mystery around your aura by learning to put others first before yourself.
You do this by keeping your thoughts and opinions on other people to yourself. It will also help if you stop sharing every part of your life on social media.
Know what you want
Evaluate yourself and what you want to achieve in your life. You must know what you really want and why you want it.
Having precise desires for the future will make you plan your actions better. The Aquarius man is drawn to women with a clear and definite purpose in life.
No, I don't mean you need to wear that back-bearing dress or those uncomfortable heels. I mean, look for that feeling that makes you feel sexy.
Once you find out what makes you feel sexy, go for it. The Aquarius man is attracted to the sexiness that comes from within.
You have to dash your old notions of what things must be.
Look for the things that make you happy in life, even if they're weird and quirky.
The Aquarius man loves the unconventional. He lives for the less-traveled roads and, if you're up for it, will love to explore them with you!
Keep your options open
Nothing is set in stone, so don't be bothered if things don't work like you want them to. Your Aquarius man is not a pawn in your life strategies.
Consider him as a person that can make his own plans and decisions. You have to respect that he has the freedom to do whatever he wants.
The Aquarius man is indeed a very complex being to understand. It takes a special kind of woman to be his mate.
It also takes a special kind of a comprehensive and in-depth guide like Aquarius Expert Anna Kovach's Aquarius Man Secrets.