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Unlike our sun sign, our moon sign, and our rising sign, our Black Moon Lilith is actually not a placement in our astrological profile. This point is exactly between the moon and the Earth at the time you were born.
Now when Black Moon Lilith is in the 8th house or in the sign of Scorpio, Lilith functions at her optimal level. It is as if she is saying “I’m home”, while the Scorpio energy goes well with Lilith’s dark and powerful nature.
Lilith in Scorpio represents intense emotions and desires. People with this placement might be drawn to mysteries and the unknown.
It's about diving deep into feelings and facing one's shadows fearlessly.
You can look for Lilith in your birth chart by spotting her symbol. It is an inverted crescent with a cross at the bottom.
What Does Lilith Have To Do With My Astrological Profile?
It is our repressed sexuality and the dark side of our personality. Our Black Moon Lilith points out where we won’t compromise.
This is where we value free will over inclusion.
Your Characteristics
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Lilith is most powerful here. And so, you can expect her to be very seductive.
The following are some of your characteristics as someone with Black Moon Lilith in Scorpio.
1. You are a natural business owner.
You must have experienced struggling to handle a regular traditional job only to find out that you’ll be successful in your own business. You are a natural-born freelancer, and you are very willing to take financial risks.
2. Your fascination for sex is extreme.
Most astrologers will compare Black Moon Lilith in Scorpio to the spider, Black Widow. The Black Widow eats her mate after they have sex.
You, with this sign, constantly want to dominate. Nothing is too taboo for you.
3. It is hard for you to show intimacy and attachment.
You will feel uncomfortable with those around you that are passionate and attached to you. This is due to your lack of self-acceptance.
4. You have an unconscious tendency to manipulate others.
You want your sexual partner to beg on their knees. You use your strength and power to compel others to satisfy your desires.
5. You suffer from chronic boredom.
You make reckless decisions and ignore the consequences at the back of your mind.
At the lowest level, there can be manifestations of sadism and vices. At the middle level, you can manifest being suicidal and there’s a danger for rape.
And at the highest level, you are independent of low instincts. Violence is avoided.
How Can I Live With Black Moon Lilith In Scorpio Easily?
1. Esoteric Practices
Some of the esoteric practices that will help you stay grounded include:
- Tarot Reading – This is an activity that practitioners use to get a glimpse of the past, present, and future by using tarot cards. If you start to dive into this thing, you will be able to get a hold of a new world.
- Meditation – Meditation allows us to focus on our breathing and find peace within ourselves. Practicing this can help you explore your subconscious mind.
- Reiki Healing – This is a form of energy therapy and involves transferring energy by laying on hands. It can reduce pain and is effective in treating diseases.
2. Find a job that suits your personality
Scorpios are known to be a loving danger. This excites them. And so, it is only fitting to pursue a career that lets them feel this.
Some of the jobs that you can pursue are rescuers, doctors, psychologists, and esoteric practitioners. Better yet, start your own business.
3. Assess the level of risks
Taking risks keeps you excited. However, sometimes you just cannot control taking dangerous risks to achieve or keep something small.
4. Do not try and please everyone
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It is okay to upset some people and that is pretty normal. You can never make everyone happy anyway.
5. Defend your interest
If something does not satisfy you, say it. This is most especially in relationships.
If your relationship does not make you happy anymore, leave it.
Your Ideal Romantic Dates:
1. Discovering a new underground scene
You love to explore new places to go to especially bars, restaurants, or maybe listen to a new band. So, on a date, you love to discover the new and hot places in town.
2. Adventures
It is in your nature to take risks. These adventures can be traveling to a small town and getting into festivals or some tourist spots near you.
3. Getting the rush of adrenaline
So, as one of your ideal dates, experiencing new and risky activities is perfect! This can be skydiving, cliff diving, roller coaster rides, or bungee jumping.
4. Getting in the water
You love to spend your time outdoors and getting in the water. You will be happy just floating around in the pool with a beer in your hand.
5. Getting to know your decadent side
A dungeon or a BDSM event are some of the not-appropriate first dates. However, it is your nature to indulge in these things.
You think that it is a way to heat things up. If your partner isn’t into this kind of thing though, a visit to a leather or fetish shop is enough.
How Can I Use My Black Moon Lilith To Harness My Power?
Your sexual powers are very strong, and you are somehow shy to show them to the world. This will leave you feeling uninspired and closed off.
So, you can use the following mantra to harness your power:
I am protected, connected, and guided by divine powers. I am free to express myself. I am connected to a higher power source. I am letting go of whatever happened in the past.
According to Rebecca Farrar, you can use this journal prompt to work with your Black Moon Lilith:
Do I need to conceal my inclination for power and domination? How can I use Lilith’s wild and powerful energy to be my best version?
How Do I Deal With A Black Moon Lilith In Scorpio Woman?
She is probably hard to handle, and you are looking for something that will help you understand her more by looking at her natal chart. Well, here you go.
Your Lilith in Scorpio woman has a black and white mentality. Scorpio is the ice of all the water signs.
She can be sweet, bubbly, fun, and generous this time but she can be wicked at the same time. With just her dark stare and deep glare, it is enough for you to surrender.
She likes to dominate. But, sometimes, she may appear cold.
It is only because she needs time to process some things in her life and finds a solution for it.
Try to cheer her up all the time and remind her how beautiful she is. This will remind her of her power.
When you are dating a Black Moon Lilith in Scorpio, keeping the relationship is constant work. Sometimes you have to give yourself up to her.
To make sure you are honest, she will give you challenges. But do not perceive these tests are cynical.
She does this so she can get closer to you and check your feelings.
When in Bed with a Black Moon Lilith in Scorpio Woman
- Allow her to take charge in bed. Trust her with all her crazy ideas and experiments.
- Tell her how sexy she is. She uses her narcissistic feminine charm for a sadistic purpose.
- Sex with her should be sensual and long because it is like meditation for her.
I’m Dating A Black Moon Lilith In Scorpio Man. Any Tips?
He doesn’t have to be reminded to call or text you because if he is into you, he is into you. He shows up on dates and takes charge of the relationship.
And if he tells you that he is, best believe that he means it because it is true. He will not leave you wondering whether he is pursuing you or not because if he is going to make a move, it is coming!
If a Black Moon Lilith in Scorpio man finds you as the center of his universe, know that he will dedicate his life solely to you. He is less likely to cheat on you because he is very passionate about a relationship and gives his best to keep you happy.
Just like how the Black Moon Lilith in Scorpio woman loves to experiment in bed, your man also loves to explore new things and maybe into BDSM or any type of sex play.
Be patient with him. This man will be hard to fight with since they have a lot of emotions, and it is going to be hard for you.
Communicate with him. Tell him about yourself, what you did today, and what you think of certain things.
Do not make him jealous. It is like one of the worst things you can do to a Scorpio.
Always tell him the truth. The thing with this type of man is that they will be unlikely to forgive and forget.
When In Bed With A Black Moon Lilith In Scorpio Man
- Be up for an adventure because he believes that to keep the excitement alive, you two should be spontaneous in the bedroom.
- While they love being a top or dominant in bed, you can also seduce him by asserting your dominance. Let him know what you want and let him give that to you.
- Use eye contact while doing it. They love getting to know your soul while looking into your eyes.
- Be mysterious and playful in the bedroom. This man loves a little bit of a mystery.
Celebrities With Black Moon Lilith In Scorpio
– Taylor Swift
– Alicia Keys
– Frank Sinatra
– Beyonce
– The Weeknd
– John Mayer
– Christina Aguilera
– Angelina Jolie
– Kesha
– Eminem
– Kylie Jenner
– Emma Watson
– Whitney Houston
– Jessica Alba
– Pink
Karen Hyman
Karen is a Psychic Medium, a Professional Astrologer, a Spiritual Advisor, and a Life Coach who has been in this career for 19+ years. She specializes in numerology, tarot and oracle cards, twin flames, love & relationships, zodiac, horoscope, dreams interpretation, and astrology. She aims to provide comfort and assurance using her abilities to offer answers to those who seek professional guidance. Read More About Karen Here.
