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The dark night of the soul is a challenging time for many people experiencing a twin flame relationship. It can sometimes feel like you are in a constant state of confusion and despair at this stage.
It is essential to know that this has been described in literature and teachings about twin flames. It is called the Dark Night of the soul because you have come from the light or ascended state into the everyday world again with all its challenges, attachments, and illusionary experiences.
You are self-aware and aware of your true spiritual nature. At this stage in your awakening, you know that everything is not as it seems.
Yet, you still feel very strongly attracted to the positive energies of your twin flame. It is a time for acceptance and growth.
There are many different posts on the internet about this topic. Still, there is no accurate understanding or knowledge of what happens during this stage in some aspects of the world.
Certain things can happen that may seem like they occur because someone is attacking you or because they do not understand your spiritual reality.
It is essential to know that most of what you may encounter, whether a seeming attack or something else, has been described in the literature as part of the dark night.
There are many descriptions of the dark night. Some say it takes 21 days. Others say it takes 7 years. Many different numbers have been assigned to this process because there are many different variations on this theme.
In a way, each person's experience will be very much the same and at the same time very much different from everyone else's experience.
The general idea is to go through a process that leads to healing which leads to ascension, and finally, connection with your twin flame again if it is meant to be.
What is the dark night of the soul?
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The dark night of the soul is basically a breakdown of old things and beliefs that have held you back and no longer serve you.
You may have had a dark night of the soul when you finally decided to make a change. Once you've been on a path for some time, it can be easy to forget why we started on it in the first place.
It can also be hard to remember what brought us back to the reality of our current situation.
Many things can cause a ‘dark night of the soul,' but they all have one thing in common: they all come from deep-seated beliefs that have held you back for far too long.
The beauty of a dark night of the soul is that it's time to let go and allow yourself to move forward from where you are now.
You will feel vulnerable and raw during this time, but it's important to remember that we all have a ‘dark night' anyway.
A dark night of the soul is anything like when you hit rock bottom, turn your life around, then realize where you are still stuck and can't get out.
This is when your realizations hit you deep within your bones;
When you realized there was something wrong with how you were living your life, and it was time to stop focusing on just what seemed ‘right' at the time.
When this happens, it can be a real struggle to move forward. The key is to start with what seems right and make it work.
If you are still feeling down and Dark Night of the soul is not over, then you may already have a good idea of where you need to go next, but some part of your mind or heart is putting up resistance.
If you don't feel like moving forward, then take some time for yourself. Write about it, sing about it, and dance about it.
Do whatever feels natural for you to do using your own creativity and voice. It's essential to get some kind of recognition for what is going on.
Once you realize that you want to move forward, it's time to forget the old and look at the new. This means going back to what brought you here in the first place.
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Find a way to really take in everything that drew you here in the first place and start making the necessary changes. Remember how much easier life was before?
Now, it can be difficult enough to get through each day with your head held high and your spirit soaring high enough to touch the sky.
You may be feeling down, but this is the time to pull yourself back up by your bootstraps and start living again. You need to get through this time with your head held high and remember that people love you and want to see you succeed.
Don't let anyone bring you down or make you doubt yourself. Stay focused on what's necessary; your friends, family, health, and happiness.
Make sure that no one gets in the way of any of these things or the relationships that matter to you most.
There is a light at the end of the tunnel. It's time to get through your dark night of the soul. Take some time to think about where you are going next, take a deep breath and then turn around and give it everything you have to make it through. You can do this!
In fact, I have experienced being in a really dark place, which was when I haven't met my twin flame yet.
I was working two jobs, struggling to pay rent and extremely lonely.
After meeting him, I launched a business and made $11,300 the first month, moved into a bigger place, and I’ve never looked back. You can speed up your twin flame’s journey to you by identifying and being sure of them.
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What do you do during the Dark Night of the soul?
The dark night of the soul is also known as the Dark Night of the spirit, and it is considered to be one of the most devastating experiences a person can go through.
This phase happens after an individual becomes deeply involved with higher consciousness.
It is essential to stay positive during this time because it would only make matters worse if you give in to negative thoughts or emotions such as despair and depression.
During this time, you don't need to feel discouraged or believe that you are amidst an existential spiritual crisis.
Here are some steps you can take to get through the Dark Night of the soul:
- Meditate every day – It doesn't matter if it is a short or a long meditation session. What matters most is how often you meditate and how much time you dedicate to it.
The longer you meditate, the more likely your spiritual growth and development will be vital.
- Read spiritual books – If you feel empty and alone in your spiritual journey, reading books that deal with spirituality can be beneficial.
- Spend time with people who share the same spiritual interests as you.
During the Dark Night of the soul, you must spend time with people who share similar interests.
So that you will be able to help each other get through this challenging experience.
- Exercise regularly – Exercising is not just good for your health.
It can also make a huge difference in your outlook in life and impact your spirituality.
When you exercise regularly, you release endorphins into your body.
They can help reduce anxiety and depression and give you a feeling of euphoria. Exercising also gives you a sense of balance in life and helps keep stress at bay.
What are the stages of the Dark Night of the soul?
The soul is in the process of self-discovery. It goes through a series of changes, known as the Dark Night of the soul, which are necessary experiences for the soul to mature.
This experience is like a birth without pain and a death without fear.
- The first stage manifests in old age after people have gone through life's experiences and desired everything they can possibly get out of it.
The person has reached their joyous wisdom and seeks to transform themselves from the inside by developing their personal principles. They know what they want from life -to be happy and fulfilled by this time.
- In the second stage, people need to change their minds, which is tricky. People often turn bitter and cynical in this state or become the targets of those already in such conditions.
They can lose sight of their true selves and become so attached to their own opinions that they are blinded to other people's reality.
- Stage three is known as the time when a person becomes stuck in misery and confusion, drifting through life without roots that would keep them planted on solid ground.
They lose all stability and focus, becoming distracted by trivial issues while not thinking clearly about more important matters.
They are very likely to turn to alcohol, drugs, or anything else to escape this state of confusion.
- The fourth stage is when people enter into the darkness of the mind and heart.
They lose interest in life and do not try to see the light anymore, even if it means losing everything they have. Depression, isolation, and a feeling of being lost are among the most vivid emotions people experience at this point.
However, even though all motivation is lost, people still know that something can keep them going.
- In the fifth stage, a person becomes confused and self-pity once again.
To escape this state, a person tries to run into the past and often becomes attracted to a normal lifestyle – the routine.
However, their attempts are in vain because they do not have enough strength to destroy their shield, which prevents them from seeing their true selves.
- The sixth stage occurs when people realize that they need help and support.
In some cases, when people are spiritually strong enough, they can take action on their own and move forward with their self-discovery to reach enlightenment.
People who do not have this self-realization turn to others for help and support; medication is more common in this stage than in any other one.
- The last stage is enlightenment.
It is characterized by a tremendous spiritual realization when someone becomes themselves. They no longer need to rely on others for help, as this stage is about fulfilling their purpose and living the life they were meant to live.
They can see that their life up until now was not about them finding themselves, but rather about finding their true self.
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Karen Hyman
Karen is a Psychic Medium, a Professional Astrologer, a Spiritual Advisor, and a Life Coach who has been in this career for 19+ years. She specializes in numerology, tarot and oracle cards, twin flames, love & relationships, zodiac, horoscope, dreams interpretation, and astrology. She aims to provide comfort and assurance using her abilities to offer answers to those who seek professional guidance. Read More About Karen Here.
