Have you broken up with your Gemini man for months now? Are you eager to get back together with him? If so, you're on the lucky side!
Being in a relationship with a Gemini man can be pretty hard at first. He may not give you his entire focus and his mind could be everywhere. He could also still flirt around, living like he's a single person.
However, when a Gemini gets deeper into the relationship, he will change for the better. He will start putting boundaries to the people he used to hang out and flirting wouldn't be an issue. He will become the best version of himself to the woman he loves.
If you want to witness that version, you may want to follow Anna Kovach's advices in Gemini Man Secrets guide.
Check these tips on how to win him over.
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So, when the time comes that you've hurt your Gemini man whose feelings are real for you, he will have a hard time. He might not accept it right away and gets angry at you, but once he realizes that he's pitiful, he will take action. He may ignore you for the longest time possible and act as if what happened was not a big deal for him.
He may also let you see him hanging out few girls and having fun like you're not worthy of his tears. Nonetheless, the truth is he's hurt deep inside and chooses to put aside his feelings not to appear weak.
So, will it be hard for you to get back together with a Gemini man? Well, the answer to that question depends on who initiated the breakup and the reason behind it. Is it you who broke up with him or is it he?
The reason behind the breakup is also an important component. It helps determine if there's still a chance to revive the lost love between you two.
So, who broke up with whom?
You can check these tips on how to get a Gemini man to commit.
Who Initiated the Breakup?
Is it you who broke up with him or is it the other way around? Does this even matter? Yes, it does!
There's a high chance of getting back together if it's you're the one who broke up with him. As you might already know, a Gemini isn't ruled by his emotions. He always does something based on being rational.
So, if he ever broke up with you, there will always be a valid reason behind it, so he may not consider getting back to you. On the flip side, if you broke up with him because he cheated on you, he may take action to win your trust and be with you again.
So, how to get back together with your Gemini man after a breakup? Let's find out!
How to Get Back Together with a Gemini Man After a Breakup?
When it comes to getting back together with your Gemini man after a breakup, you shouldn't get hasty. You need to ensure that he is all okay and has enough time to process everything before getting back to him. You also have to know that it wouldn't be easy and fast to be with him again as you used to.
To know whether he is already over you before getting him back, I wrote a guide on how to tell if a Gemini man is done with you.
So, how can you and your Gemini ex get back together after a breakup? Let's find out!
Give him enough time and space.
As you can see above, you have to give enough time and space to your ex before trying to get his attention again. You have to make sure that he's okay first, especially if the breakup only happened recently. Be sensitive to his feelings and give him enough time to think about everything if you were at fault.
Avoid calling or texting him too much as it will only make him go far away from you. Wait for him to be okay and once he got everything sorted out, he will be the one to go to you if he wants to be with you again.
Don't get too emotional.
During the breakup, it will be normal to get too emotional. However, if you are dealing with a Gemini man, it's best to be rational with him instead of getting too emotional. Talk with him logically and avoid begging him to stay as it will only push him to give up the relationship.
If he's the one who wants to break up with you, ask him why and if there's something that you can do to change his mind. If he's decided to break up with you, let him and do your best to accept his decision gracefully. This way, you are showing him that you can handle yourself well.
Don't be bitter when you see him on the streets and say hi with a genuine smile. You'll get surprised how his reaction will be seeing you without any bitterness for him for what he's done. Give him some time and he will likely come back to you once he's ready.
Make him laugh again.
If you've broken up with your Gemini beau, it's important to be friends with him first. Since things have ended between you two, it's ideal to have an unshakable foundation with him. Consider taking things slow with him and start as being friends.
Once you've established something with him again, there will be no more awkwardness. You can then start taking your shots, but make sure to be subtle at first. Don't go on the full mode of flirting and show him that he can always count on you.
Once he starts to get comfortable with you again, he will be the one to take action to be with you again. He might even invite you over for a cup of coffee or dinner. Once you meet up with him, avoid talking about the things in the past, especially the breakup.
As much as possible, be a ray of sunshine to him by always being positive and happy whenever he's with you. You may also call or send him witty texts to make him laugh or smile.
Be spontaneous with him.
One way to get his attention back is by being spontaneous with him. You may invite him to an unplanned out-of-town adventure or try out the new restaurant's menu in town. You can also invite him over for dinner with a few friends to make sure that it wouldn't be awkward between you two.
Whatever you want to do with him, make sure that it isn't dull and not part of your routine, or else, he will lose interest. You may surprise him with fun activities and escapades that he won't likely forget. Make sure that he will enjoy your company to make him want to spend more time with you.
Since Geminis are suckers for parties or any gatherings, you may organize one for him. You may invite your friends and his friends and have fun together. Make sure to prepare good foods that will likely get appreciated by his friends and yours.
Give him a good time to remember by knowing what makes him happy and have fun with Gemini Man Secrets guide.
Once everyone had fun in the event, he will likely remember why he fell in love with you before. It's your outgoing, fun, and spontaneous nature that made him stick with you for long. He will likely reminisce those times and might take action if you keep pushing the right buttons.
Look good and flirt with him.
Once you got his attention and he is comfortable with you again, you start flirting with him. Ensure that you always look your best when you're with him and intoxicate him with your fragrance. You can begin by being touchy with him whenever he tells a joke.
Don't know how to flirt with him? An article I wrote on how to successfully flirt with a Gemini man might be helpful.
Make sure to be subtle in your flirting ways to avoid rejection. Ensure first that your Gemini is on the same wavelength as you when it comes to wanting to get back together. This way, you are saving yourself from the embarrassment in case he doesn't want to be with you anymore.
Nonetheless, it's not a crime to try. There's always a high chance to get back together with your Gemini ex as long as you play your cards right. Use your looks to get him back and make him stay with your character.
Allure with your looks and show him that you have the qualities that he wants and needs in a woman. This way, he won't hesitate to try another shot with you once again.
If you want to know more, I explained eight rules in how to make a Gemini man want you back.
Gemini Man Secrets guide also contains loads of several information that you may find interesting and helpful in your relationship with your Gemini man.