Do you often get bored while having sex? Or maybe you are looking for someone who can offer better sex? If yes, this article is for you.
The law of attraction has no boundaries; you can manifest anything you want in your life! Including a better sex life. To make it work, you need to align your beliefs, thoughts, and energy to your desire.
To manifest better sex or anything you want in life, the first thing you need to change is your mindset.
Manifesting is feeling the emotion of having the sex life that you wished for even before you have them.
So, it would help if you stopped focusing on the things you do not want. Stop wishing that you have better sex than today.
Stop believing that you are not satisfied with the sex life that you have now.
Those thoughts would only make you more frustrated because you are not getting the sex life you wanted.
Instead, start appreciating the sex life you have at the moment. Put in your mind the sex that you imagined or wished for.
If you want to be more satisfied with your sex life, you have to live as if you are getting it now. And you will notice some changes in your behavior and mindset.
You are also creating good vibrations, and you will have the frequency and the quality of the sex you desire.
The law of attraction states that you attract what you are, so you need to become like the person you want, and by that, you will start attracting them.
People will more likely get attracted to the person they know is on the same wavelength.
After this, here are some steps that will help you manifest a better sex life.
What are the steps in manifesting a better sex life?
Clarify exactly what you want and why do you want it
You need to think of what you want when it comes to your sex life. You have to be clear with what you want.
As much as possible, be specific with it, and be detailed on how you want your sexual intercourse would be.
This is important because the universe will send you exactly what you wish for, so you must be very clear about it.
You may not get it how you want it to be if you are unsure how you want things to flow.
Every after your sexual intercourse, you may write the things you want in sex, what you want to improve, and how you want it to happen.
You can also write those thoughts right after they cross into your mind.
In that way, you will keep track of what you want and if there are things that are getting better as time goes by.
The next is you have to know why you want it to happen. This will play a significant role in manifesting your sex life.
This will be the basis of whether your manifestation will attract positive or negative experiences.
Your goal in manifesting should attract positive energies. You want this type of sexual intercourse to be based on pure and good intentions.
If you think that this manifestation will only attract negative energies, you have to back out. The possible outcome of this manifestation will only leave you more frustrated.
Visualize that you are getting a better orgasm
Visualizing will play a significant role in your manifesting. Your manifestation will work faster if you imagine what you want to happen.
Remember that when manifesting, your “feeling” are the one who attracts, it is good to feel the emotions you feel when you are visualizing the sex life you wanted.
It is better to visualize this in a place where you cannot be disturbed.
Visualize that you are on the verge of climaxing, and then bring that emotion to life, start to build up your arousal by doing such things.
The body and mind are connected. It is easier to bring those imaginations in your mind to your reality.
Do not be self-conscious while doing this, do not resist the pleasure. Instead, please take it as a challenge.
You have to avoid becoming too self-aware, as the blockage may arise.
You can also try to visualize a specific person; it could be your partner or anyone that could help you get into the “feeling.” Their face, body, or voice have a solid mental picture of them in your mind.
And then start to focus on the feeling you may feel in sex. Focus on high vibrational emotions such as joy, happiness, and love.
If you feel positive emotions while doing visualization, try to do it as much as possible to manifest your desires.
Stop Limiting Beliefs
This can be the leading cause of your manifestations not coming into your reality. Limiting beliefs are causing a blockage.
You have to eliminate all the limiting beliefs as it creates doubts and negative thoughts. You do not want to be clouded by negative thoughts while manifesting.
When manifesting, as much as possible, you need to avoid any negative energies, as they may attract adverse outcomes.
Limiting beliefs will come in different thinking, such as:
“No one wants to be with me.”
“I am not worthy of love.”
“No one will give me the best sex that I desire.”
“I am not attractive enough for someone.”
“I will never find the perfect partner.”
“I have many flaws, and no one will accept me.”
“I am not good enough in bed.”
Those are some examples, and they may also come in other aspects. Limiting beliefs may come from past trauma or experiences.
But these beliefs need to be eliminated, they are not helping in your manifestations, and they also crash the self-confidence you have.
To get rid of limiting beliefs, you have to be aware of the limiting beliefs that you have in your mind and where they are coming from.
If you acknowledge these beliefs, you will realize that it is not true and all in your head. And after acknowledging it, you may start taking action in eliminating them.
You do not need to rush to eliminate them. You can take them one by one and slowly get rid of them.
Be brave enough to face your beliefs instead of running away from them.
Stating affirmations will help you get rid of limiting beliefs, as it can give you self-confidence that could get rid of negative thoughts.
These affirmations can also help you replace negative thoughts with high vibrational energies. It is better to state these while feeling the emotion you feel while visualizing.
You state affirmations whenever you doubt your manifestations or if your mind is filled with negative emotions.
Here are some of the manifestations that you can use.
“I am worthy of receiving love.”
“I deserve to feel good and have fun.”
“My highest priority is to feel good.”
“I trust that the universe will find my perfect match.”
“I am ready to meet the perfect partner for me.”
The affirmations that you will state are the ones that are applicable in your current situation.
Let go and let the universe lead
This is the final step in manifesting a better sex life. In manifesting, you have to let go of your desire and trust that the universe will give it to you at the right time.
Usually, you feel the urge to control the outcome and feel the rush in manifesting.
You may want to get your manifestations quickly, but there are some situations where your manifestations will not come overnight.
The more you force something to happen quickly, the more you will not receive it.
It is said that your manifestations will come when you are least expecting them.
So, let go of all your desires and let the universe do the work.
You must be patient when manifesting, worrying, and doubts are negative emotions, and negative emotions will affect your manifestations by slowing them down.
Always know that the universe's plan will always exceed your plan and will always lead you to the highest good.
What are the things you need to avoid when manifesting?
Aside from the things that you need to do, there are some things that you need to avoid when it comes to manifesting.
These things may affect the progress of your manifestations and will leave and cause negative experiences.
It is said that the more you hold on to the thought of having it will make harder it is to reach.
As a person, you may sometimes ask why does my manifestation take too long? Well, it is expected since many people are having this thought too.
However, the more you want it and need it to come to you, the more it will take longer to come.
You must be patient when manifesting. Trust that the universe will give you what you wish for at the right time.
Instead of focusing on why it takes too long to be in your reality, focus on making yourself better. Invest and give time for yourself.
Investing in yourself will make you feel good and happy. Remember that happy thoughts will have a positive outcome.
Aside from having a positive outcome, if you focus on getting better, you become more ready for what the universe will give.
Avoid having doubts
Doubts could also be the reason why your manifestations are not coming. Doubts are the thoughts that create limiting beliefs.
It is important to trust yourself and the universe that your manifestations will come to you at the right timing no matter what happens.