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How to Manifest someone back into your life: Reconcile with them!

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Is there someone you want to be back in your life? Is it a friend? Ex fling? An ex? Or a family member that you want to reconcile with? Do you know that you can manifest someone to be back into your life?

It is possible to manifest someone back into your life, no matter your relationship with them. With the law of attraction, your manifestation could happen. You only need to focus on your desire and align it with your thoughts, energies, and beliefs.

Breaking up with someone can be challenging, as they become and contribute a significant part to your life, whether it is your friend, ex-lover, or a family member.

Whatever the relationship you had with this person, there will be times that you will think of them and miss the old times you had together.

You may be thinking, what are the things you can do to make this someone back into your life, and you think you need them and cannot leave without them.

However, you can manifest them returning to your life; there will be just things you need to change and avoid to make your manifestations work.

What are the things you need to change before manifesting?

Change your mindset

If you miss someone and want them back in your life, sometimes you become desperate to make them back, that you put out energies that you need and cannot live without them.

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But that thinking is why they are not coming back into your life. They feel that you need them; they feel your desperation, making them not come back.

You have to work on yourself with this one, change your mindset into thinking that you don't need them in your life, that you want them, but they are not why you can't go on in life.

Focus on other things, and stop creating energies screaming that you need them.

Establish a solid faith in the universe

Aside from that, it would help if you established a solid faith in the universe. You have to believe that your manifestations will come to your life at the right time.

Manifesting a specific person may take time. It usually takes weeks up to months before coming to your reality.

It also depends on your energy, thoughts, and beliefs.

You may not avoid that in the long run, you will start to doubt your manifestations, and you will start to question the universe.

You need to trust that no matter how long you wait, and no matter what happens, the universe will send you a better outcome than what you expect.


The next thing you need to work on is aligning your beliefs, thoughts, and energies with your desires. If you want to make your manifestations faster, these things need to be aligned.

You cannot get the outcome that you are expecting if your mind is clouded with negative thoughts, as this will only create negativity, and the universe will send back the negativity you put out.

You need to be aware that the energy you are putting out in manifesting is the same energy that you will attract.

So, it is essential that you only put out positive energies.

What are the steps in manifesting someone back in your life?

Be clear on what you want

In manifesting, you need to know what you want, be clear about it, and be specific on what you want to happen.

If you are vague about it and keep changing your mind about your manifestation, the universe might get mixed signals and may send an unfavorable outcome on your side.

To help you get clear on what you want to manifest, you may write it in your journal notebook. You can start with one sentence and add details once it pops into your mind.

Since you are manifesting a specific person, write the name, birthdate, physical features, and your favorite traits about this person.

You need to describe the person clearly. You may add their hobbies, unique talents, anything that could describe them.

After that, write your relationship with this person and what you want to happen. You may write that you want to be civil with them, your relationship to work, etc.

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Then after being clear on what you want to manifest, list all your reasons for manifesting it. You may write it in your journal notebook also.

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And then, choose the most compelling and inspiring reason from the list. 

Manifestation is a process, and manifesting a specific person back in your life may take time to come into your reality. It would help if you had something that could inspire you.

Aside from that, your reasons will also identify whether your manifestations will attract positive or negative energies, and the outcome of your manifestations will rely on that energy.

So, to have the outcome that you expect, your reason should come from a place of positivity that you are manifesting with love, happiness, and care.

And by that, you will attract positive energy, which can give you a positive outcome and, sometimes, much better than what you expect.


Visualization is the most powerful tool used in manifestations, as it can make your manifestations come to your reality quicker.

In visualizing, you are tapping into the energy of your manifestations.

It is important to visualize in a quiet place and without disturbance as visualizations require focus. Before visualizing, calm yourself first, take deep breaths, or if you can meditate, then do it.

Please close your eyes and create a solid mental picture of the person you want to be back in your life; think of their face, body, smile, eyes, anything.

And then visualize that they are back in your life, that things are going fine between you. 

If you are manifesting an ex-friend, you can visualize that you are spending time together, doing things that you used to do, talking about the things you love and hate.

If you are manifesting a family member, visualize that you are reuniting at a family dinner. The two of you are talking nicely to each other and enjoying the family dinner.

Visualize that they are back in your life, and you are enjoying each other's company.

And then feel the emotion you felt while visualizing. Did you feel happy? Excited? If yes, then continue to feel the emotion, and enjoy it.

The energy that you feel will contribute a lot to making your manifestations come to your reality faster.

While visualizing, you are happy and creating high vibrational energy that you put out to the universe.

Repeat visualizing anytime you can.

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Eliminate limiting beliefs

Limiting beliefs are negative thoughts that cause delays and blockage in your manifestations, and you must eliminate them all.

Usually, limiting beliefs come from your past experiences, trauma, and judgment of other people, and it may be challenging if you eliminate them all.

Acknowledging your limiting beliefs will help eliminate them, as you can know where they come from, and you will observe that those beliefs are not valid.

After acknowledging them, you will be aware of them, and eliminating them will be less challenging.

State positive affirmations

Another way to eliminate limiting beliefs is to state positive affirmations, and these are statements that can lift your energy and mood.

Positive affirmations eliminate limiting beliefs and replace them with positive ones; this could also help make your day and avoid low vibe energy.

You can search for positive affirmation online or make your affirmation. It is better to state positive affirmation that applies to your current situation.

You can recite affirmation every morning to start your day with positive thoughts, or you can recite some if you feel that your mind is filled with negativity.

Focus on yourself

This may sound cliché, but focusing on yourself would help make your manifestations come to your reality faster.

In this way, you can self-reflect and think of the traits you can improve. 

This will serve as preparation; since you broke up with this person, some things may need to be changed, and you can start to know them by self-reflection.

Aside from focusing on improving yourself, you also need to take care of yourself and learn how to enjoy your own company.

You can start taking care of yourself by not doing anything that can harm your body and mind, start taking good sleep, eating healthy foods, and working out.

And you can enjoy your own company by doing things that can make you happy. In this way, you can be happy, and you will not depend your happiness on someone.

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Detach yourself from the outcome

The last step you need to do is detach yourself from the outcome. 

Many people fail at this step as they keep holding on to the outcome of their manifestations, which leads them to obsess about it.

If you continue to hold on to this, the outcome may be delayed or blocked, as obsession is negative energy.

This could also result in receiving an outcome that you do not expect, making you more frustrated and desperate about it, and the cycle continues.

You have to let go of the outcome and trust that the universe will send you what you manifest, and if not, they may give something better than it.

If you feel impatient with your manifestations, think that the universe is still preparing you for the good things that will come your way.

So that when the time comes, and your manifestations become your reality, you are prepared, and you will not mess things up, that you can handle it better.

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Karen is a Psychic Medium, a Professional Astrologer, a Spiritual Advisor, and a Life Coach who has been in this career for 19+ years. She specializes in numerology, tarot and oracle cards, twin flames, love & relationships, zodiac, horoscope, dreams interpretation, and astrology. She aims to provide comfort and assurance using her abilities to offer answers to those who seek professional guidance. Read More About Karen Here.