Can you still mend a relationship after having a breakup? Getting over with an ex is not easy, even more, if you want to get back with him or her! Relationships are challenging for every person. Imagine two different people trying to understand each other with different perspectives and experiences in life.
No wonder a lot of couples break up and end their relationship. But, what if that break up is just a mistake? What if you really found your soulmate already, but you were just not mature enough to realize it? Can you still ask for another chance? Of course, yes
If you really think that your ex is the person you need in your life and you want to get him back, manifesting him would be the best thing for you to do.
Manifestation is attracting to your reality the things you know you deserve. This is through your beliefs, thoughts, and actions. Yes! You can attract everything you want as long as your put your focus into it, including your ex!
Remember, manifesting is not manipulating. You don’t manipulate someone into getting back to you. It will only make things worse for both of you, especially in the long run. Manifesting respects the free will of a person. You only attract the person with the same energy or vibration as you without stealing away his freedom of choice.
Why you Should Start Manifesting your Ex?
Many people think relationships should always be perfect. That’s why when a challenge comes between a couple, the first thing that comes into their mind is to stop the relationship and break up. But, different challenges require different solutions. This is what most people only realize right after breaking up.
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But, a breakup doesn’t always mean it’s already the end of your relationship! It might be the universe’s way of making you both realize that you truly want each other in your life. It could also be for the two of you to realize that there are certain things within yourself that you need to change first before you can continue your relationship again as a couple.
But remember, you should also be wise in knowing your limits. If that person is affecting your life negatively and is not willing to change his or her ways, then you must think twice before manifesting him or her back into your life.
In this article, you will know the different ways on how to manifest your beloved ex back into your life.
How to Manifest Someone into Getting Back with you?
Manifesting someone back may not be as easy as you think, especially when both of you ended it up with negative emotions. But here are some tips and advice on how to manifest someone back the right way.
- Know The Reason Why You Want To Get Back With Him or Her
The most important thing you need to know is the reason why you want to get back with your ex. There could be a lot of reasons for that. No matter what it is, think carefully about it, weigh the pros and cons, and make sure that you won’t have any doubts about it when you start manifesting.
Do you want to get him back because you miss him? You might miss someone who leaves your life, if you think this is the only reason you have for getting back with him, think again and list down all the possible things that might happen when you get back with him or her.
Do you want to get back with him or her because you realized you really love him or her? Love is different from being infatuated. Make sure you are on the right mind and have really thought about this before you came to the conclusion that you want him or her back.
You need to clarify this within yourself to avoid any regrets in the future. You might also consider if you and that person are willing to change the reason why you two broke up. These questions will help you a lot in thinking about whether you’re willing to give this relationship a second chance or not.
- Ask Yourself What’s Limiting You
Limiting beliefs are anything that could be interfering between you and your manifestations. A lot of things could be limiting you from getting your ex back to you. There’s a big possibility that one of those limiting beliefs is the reason why you two broke up
You need to address these things first, or else you will only find yourself fighting over the same thing with your ex-lover again. List down the things that might be blocking you.
You might be thinking that you don’t deserve his or her love, or maybe you don’t think he or she will ever forgive you for what you did. No matter what it is, list it down and process it. By listing it down, you are holding accountable for the belief that you have. This will make it easier for you to shift into a positive one.
If you’re thinking that he or she doesn’t want to talk to you ever again, think that he or she just needs some time and will also want to talk to you when he or she is ready.
If you think that you might never find true love and that you will always end up feeling hurt in every relationship you have, think that there is always room for growth, and you are on your way to meeting the kind of love you will have for a lifetime.
By learning to shift all of these negative thoughts, you will have the power to control your decisions in a relationship and will make your next relationship with your ex-lover even stronger than ever.
- Learn To Love Yourself
You might think that loving your ex-lover is the only reason that should be important for your manifestation. That’s not all, you must also learn how to love yourself in a way that you will start to attract the people that you deserve.
Love starts within yourself, if you do not love yourself enough, it will be hard for you to manifest love that includes other people. Remember, you attract the same vibrations that you have.
If you have low vibration, there’s a big chance that you will be attracting people that also have the same low vibrations. But, if you have high vibrational energy, chances are, you’ll also attract people that have the same energy!
Loving yourself empowers you and makes you have high vibrational energy. This way, all people that will be attracted to you will also have the same energy. If your ex-lover has the same vibrational energy as yours, it would be easy for the both of you to get back to each other!
The universe will be the one to orchestrate how you two will be able to meet again. You just have to make sure that you already understood that change must also be there when the two of you get back with each other. Without change, you two will be on the same problem again, and a possibility of breaking up will happen once again.
By doing this, love will be easy to give the two of you another chance.
- Ask The Universe For It
Ask the universe for what you are manifesting. You’ll never know, the universe might also be getting your ex-lover ready to be with you again. The universe will also give you the answers that you’ll be needing.
There are many different signs and signals that could be given to you once you start to tell the universe what it is that you really want. You might be having doubts or still confused as to whether you’ll get back with your ex-lover or not. You might also be wondering if it’s the right time to get back with him or her.
You’ll never go wrong once you started asking the universe for all of it. The universe will give you the answers to your questions at the right time. You just have to trust that the answer will come to you no matter what. Whether it’s a yes or a no, you must trust that it is for your own good and that the universe has a good reason for it.
- Do Daily Affirmations Of Love
Along your journey of manifesting your ex back to you, you will face a lot of challenges. These challenges might overpower you from time to time, and that’s why you need to start telling affirmations to yourself on a daily basis.
These affirmations will be the ones to help you fight the negativities that you may face every day. It will also be your guide into loving yourself more and more each day. Affirmations are one of the ways you can show how much you love yourself enough that you trust you and that you don’t doubt what you’re capable of.
You could cheer yourself up every morning you wake up by telling yourself kind words like:
I am capable of giving and receiving the kind of love I deserve
I know that someone is waiting for me
Someone is getting ready to meet me and spend a lifetime of happiness with me.
I am surrounded with love, and the person for me will be brought to me.
I am lovable, and my heart is ready to receive love.
You don’t have to use fancy words to make it effective for you. Think about how you talk to yourself every day, then make it a positive one. That will be how you should speak to yourself and affirm yourself every morning or every time you need it.
Be your own cheerleader because no one else will.
- Learn To Listen To The Signs
Once you started doing the proper ways of manifesting back your ex-lover into your life, it’s time to let go and start listening for the signs that the universe will give. Letting go is a crucial part of this manifestation process because if you keep holding on to what you’ve manifested, there’s a big possibility that you might end up getting desperate to get him or her back.
You must also be aware of everything that surrounds you because the signs that the universe will give you might be anywhere! It doesn’t have to be a big or major thing or event, even the smallest things, the universe can use it to show you the signs it is trying to tell.
Open your mind and heart to these signs and accept them no matter what the answer will be. If the universe gave you a sign that it is okay to get back with your ex, trust the process and keep loving and focusing on yourself more. Time will come when everything is right for the both of you, the universe will make its way to get you two back together.
If the answer you got from the universe is a no, then don’t be upset about it. It might be saving you from another major heartbreak by your ex and is leading you to a person who will really love you and, yes, even more than your ex-lover has loved you before!
Always remember that no matter what the outcome is, trust that it will always be for your own good. Just do your part of loving yourself even more for you to know if a person is deserving of your love or not.
What to Avoid when Manifesting your Ex Back?
Lots of different feelings might be felt when you are trying to get your ex back to you. This is a very dangerous one because you might regret the things that you’re about to do if you weren’t able to control your emotions.
So, to make you aware of these, here are the things that you should avoid doing when you are trying to manifest your ex back.
- Always Texting Him or Her
I know, this will be the very first thing on your mind when you start missing your ex-lover. But, keep this in mind, if they don’t contact you, it doesn’t mean that you have to contact them! Give them the space they need and give yourself a break that your heart needs.
Breakup is exhausting in every aspect of your life. Don’t make it more exhausting by stalking him on his social media and texting him all the time. Start focusing on yourself. Use your time to heal and contemplate about what you can do better for yourself.
- Being Desperate
Do not appear desperate in front of your ex-lover. By doing this, you are showing him or her that you are still very immature and that you have low self-worth.
Just because you wanted to get your ex back doesn’t mean that you have to beg him or her to do it. If the person really wants to get back to you, you don’t have to do all those things! He or she will give it to you without being asked.
But also, keep in mind that he or she might just really want to step back and take some time to think things through. Give your ex-lover that time, and you should also give time for yourself too.
- Jumping Into Another Relationship
Jumping into another relationship could also be your solution if you want to get your attention away from your ex or maybe just to get him or her jealous. This is a bad idea, especially if you have no idea what you’re doing. You might end up in another heartbreak or worse, break someone else’s heart.
If you really want to remove your focus and attention away from him, then start focusing on yourself! Live the life you want, do the hobbies you love, travel, go on an adventure alone! This will not only take your attention away from him but will also make you love yourself more.
- Complicating Things By Involving Other People
If you really want to get your ex back, you should also stop gossiping about the negative things that happened to both of you. This will only make it harder for the both of you to manifest getting back to each other.
Involving other people with these things will bring more confusion and negativity to the relationship. Remember, not all people who want to know your story are willing to help. You should be wise about who you want to get involved in your relationship with.
Getting your ex-lover back to you is not an impossible thing to do, you just have to manifest the proper way and be wise with your decision. You have to make sure that the reason you two broke up is still mendable and both of you are willing to work things out because what you should have is a two-way relationship.