When it comes to dating a Gemini man, he can be all about you this day and may act like he doesn't know you next. So, is there a chance to win a Gemini man despite this? Let's find out!
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When it comes to relationships, Geminis like to take their time to get to know the woman they are with. Although they might not be the committed type at first, they will be once they see that you're the one. They want to be with someone they can rely on and are patient enough to wait for them to commit. So, if you're currently dating or in a relationship with a Gemini guy, it is best not to coax him into marriage.
According to Gemini Man Secrets guide, moving too fast with a Gemini man is one of the things that turn the hot man cold.
Wait for him until he's ready to commit, but ensure to do something productive while waiting. You may take up a new course, go on a solo adventure or have fun with your friends. Show him your independent side and let him see that you're not pausing your life because of him. You can benefit from this action as it will make him realize that you're not clingy like the others.
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Why Gemini Guys Leave All Of A Sudden?
When a Gemini man leaves, there could be many reasons behind it. It could be that he finds the situation too fast and he's not ready yet. It could also be that he wants to think things through to come up with a good decision for both of you. However, you don't have to be afraid that he might leave you as he could also only be testing you.
There are times when a Gemini guy tries his woman to see how she will react and assess if she's the right one. This can be mean and definitely not funny, but you have to accept him for who he is. He will always do what he wants and disregard what other people around him think. So, why does a Gemini guy leave all of a sudden? Let's dive right into it!
He's not ready yet.
One of the top reasons why a Gemini man leaves someone is that he's not ready for a serious relationship yet. This doesn't mean that he doesn't love you, he may love you, but he's just not ready to commit yet.
Everything is moving too fast.
A Gemini might pull the break without giving any notice if he finds everything is moving too fast. He might be ready to commit to you, but it could be that he's unsure if it's the right time. This doesn't mean that he will break from the relationship; he just needs time to think. If you happen to encounter the scenario above, give him a few weeks to settle his mind and don't disturb him. It will either make him miss your presence or help him restore the peace of his mind.
You might also be interested in this article I wrote about how to know if a Gemini man is done with you.
Above are only two of the reasons why a Gemini guy chooses to leave. There could be many others, but you don't have to worry about it, as his mind can still change. So, hang in there and the ways to win him over despite him being hot and cold with you.
5 Ways To Win A Gemini Man Despite Being Hot And Cold
#1 Be independent and live your best life.
One of the best ways to win a Gemini man over despite being hot and cold is to be independent and live your best life. If he's into you, this will open his eyes to your value as a woman. He may start feeling drawn to you, knowing that you're living your best life and someone new might come in. So, if your Gemini man goes hot and cold with you, don't chase him. Instead, live your best life and show him that you can still smile and have fun even without him.
This will likely wake him up from the reality that your world doesn't only revolve around him.
#2 Play up with your look
Since a Gemini guy has a short attention span, consider playing with your look to get his attention. As much as possible, don't stick to one style of hair or wardrobe. Play up a bit with how you look and dress and you might win him over. So, have some new styles of dresses, pants, and other clothing stuff that help you stand out. This way, he might get excited to meet up with you again and anticipate how you will look next time.
You might also be interested in what a Gemini man's ideal type is to keep his eyes on you, which are all revealed in the ultimate guide Gemini Man Secrets.
#3 Don't stick up with a routine.
Geminis can quickly get bored and always on the go to find new, exciting things to take on. So, you better have a backpack with some essentials ready, just in case, he will want to go on an adventure with you. Traveling is one way to make himself feel so alive and break free from the monotony of life. If he doesn't have any plan to enjoy his free time yet, you can invite him to come with you on an out-of-town adventure. Ensure to include enjoyable physical activities to stimulate his whole being. Make sure to also text him with new and interesting topics.
He will likely get more interested in you, knowing that you love doing what he loves to do.
#4 Continue to evolve.
Another way to win a Gemini despite his mood is to continue evolving. Let him see that you're not wallowing in loneliness despite him ignoring you. He will likely get proud and respect you for standing up for yourself and making yourself better. You can enroll in a new course or take up your master's to further your education. You can also try to acquire new skills or volunteer in a children's shelter.
Whatever you do, make sure that it brings value to your life. You should also not try to chase him, making him want to stay away from you more. Just give him the time he needs and don't try to contact him during this time. Once he realizes that you are such a gem, he will be the one to go to you and apologize for the way he acts.
If he apologizes, don't say that it's okay and just leave the past behind. Let him know how you feel, not to make him feel guilty, but to let him make amendments.
#5 Don't show high emotions when he comes back.
It can be tough to pretend that you're not super happy that he's back but do it anyway for your good. Don't go on a full celebratory mode and cook a lot for him. You don't want to make him think that he's too precious for you as it will make him take you for granted again. If you want to reward him for coming back to you, make sure to do that little by little.
Never prepare a feast right after returning as he might assume that what he did is okay and might repeat it. So, consider not showing high emotions when he comes back. This way, he may realize his mistake and make up for it.
Read more in this article on how to effectively play a Gemini man in his own game.
I also suggest reading my friend and Relationship Astrologer Anna Kovach's Gemini Man Secrets guide. It has all the information you'll need in keeping up with your fickle Gemini man.