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What Is Synastry, And What Are These Planets?
Synastry is what brings two people together. It is what makes them attracted to each other, how two people act to each other when in a relationship.
Venus and Mars in a square aspect in synastry shows that you both have intense feelings for each other. You will feel like there's an overwhelming attraction.
Venus governs the aspects of beauty, pleasure, and emotions. It rules love, sexuality, creativity, and it even indicates to whom we are interested.
Mars, on the other hand, is the opposite of Venus. While Venus governs all things beautiful, Mars governs the other side of the coin.
Mars rules on anger, sexual aggression, and chaos. Mars is what governs our willpower, strength, and our deepest desires.
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Like a burning fire that warms your entire body, you will have strong chemistry.
But what happens if Venus squares Mars?
What Is Square, By The Way?
Square indicates conflict, challenges, or obstacles. It's how two people disagree with each other.
It can or show how you will both act when disagreements arise. Square shows where the conflicts will occur.
But fret not! Square isn't always about aggression.
It can also tell the sexual attraction between the couple.
Also, it provides the romantic chemistry between the two.
What To Expect In The Relationship?
Think of the movie “When Harry Met Sally.” Sally is that straight-up person who does everything by the book.
You can say that she has everything planned out in her life. In contrast, Harry is the spontaneous burst of energy.
He is a happy-go-lucky person and likes to play around. They are opposites, and they rarely agree on one thing.
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But one thing is for sure: they balance each other.
Mars people always like to be the leader. They will always want to take charge of something.
They will come off as aggressive people—the bold ones.
Contrary to Mars, Venus are passive people. They are the dreamy people, the chill ones.
They are known for their calm demeanor. Ruled by pleasure, they would focus on the things that make them, or their partner pleasured—the romantic one.
Being opposites, the things that they do to express their love might not come off as love.
Mars, being the bold one, may come off as insensitive and inconsiderate. Venus may take it the wrong way.
Venus, as the romantic one, will view the aggressiveness as repulsive. Venus may think that Mars isn't into the relationship.
The problem will arise, too, when Mars feels like Venus is much of a softer person. Since they are all about bold, the softness of this Venus might irritate them. Mars might think that this Venus is too challenging as a partner.
Both of them can feel that overwhelming chemistry. But their differences hinder them from understanding each other.
Expect that there would be a lot of miscommunications.
The relationship will involve limitless drama, nasty fights, heated arguments. You both have passionate feelings for each other, which is good.
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We Want To Make It Work. So What Now?
This love-hate relationship is exhausting. But it can survive in the long term.
However, it requires working on the vital thing in every relationship: communication.
Both of them need to look into their energies and communicate them. Both need to be honest and open to each other.
Venus should start telling Mars what makes them feel loved. Mars, then, should watch out for their anger.
Their anger might upset this Venus. They should also communicate to Venus what makes them angry. Mars should be honest about the things that they find unacceptable.
Sure, it will take a lot of work for the relationship to work. After all, you both have passionate feelings for each other.
If you both want to work it out, you certainly can!
You might also want to check out this Venus square Neptune synastry article that I wrote.
Friendships In Venus Square Mars
There could be a rocky friendship on the road. As Mars likes taking charge, the Mars friend will always have the urge to lead.
This Mars friend could come off as the dominant one. The one who always makes the decisions.
This trait can lead to frustration on the Venus friend.
You might feel that you can't help but feel drawn to each other. But there's this nagging feeling that you both have bad intentions for each other.
We can better summarize this as frenemies.
Karen Hyman
Karen is a Psychic Medium, a Professional Astrologer, a Spiritual Advisor, and a Life Coach who has been in this career for 19+ years. She specializes in numerology, tarot and oracle cards, twin flames, love & relationships, zodiac, horoscope, dreams interpretation, and astrology. She aims to provide comfort and assurance using her abilities to offer answers to those who seek professional guidance. Read More About Karen Here.
