Virgo & Aquarius Compatibility: Make It Or Break It?

The relationship between a Virgo and Aquarius may be considered obscure despite their good mental rapport and intellectual connection. Virgo and Aquarius will need to sort out their differences in perspectives first before they venture into a long-term relationship.

One of the things they need to settle would be their approach in life. As an Earth sign, Virgos tend to be more practical and realistic. They plant their feet solid on the ground, and they solve any problems they encounter with pragmatic solutions. On the other hand, Aquarius tends to be more idealistic. They like to generate ideas without any practical applications.

Aside from those mentioned, Virgos and Aquarius have a lot of differences. They can either make it or break, and the decision lies from their outlook and understanding of each other. They can use those differences to complement each other and make their relationship work.

In this article, you will learn all details about Virgo/Aquarius relationship. As you'll see, Virgos and Aquarius can make good lovers and friends if they'll make it work out.

Virgo And Aquarius General Characteristics

1. General Characteristic of Virgos

Practical and Analytical

As an Earth sign, Virgos tend to be very practical in all aspects of life. They know how to achieve their goals through practical and pragmatic ways. Virgos use their minds to decide, and they never go into a situation without considering every pros and cons. As much as possible, they'll want security rather than gut feelings.

Also, Virgos see even the most minute details in everything. For them, the devil lies in the details, and they can't stand to see some errors in their plans. Every step of their way must come from careful analytic thinking. As such, Virgos take much of their time deciding and planning things.

Judgmental and Critical of Others

With their razor-sharp attention to details come Virgo's rough and abrasive approach in criticizing others. As mentioned, Virgos can't stand to see any errors, and their natural tendency would be to point those errors out. Virgos know nothing about sugar-coating, and they'll tell other people their mistakes, making Virgos sound rude and arrogant.

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Aside from the standards they set for other people, Virgos also set some for themselves. They’ll do everything they can to surpass those standards. In case Virgos fail, they tend to get critical of themselves, drowning themselves in anxiety and depression. They must understand that nobody's perfect and that they can use their perfectionist side to achieve excellence.

2. General Characteristic of Aquarius

Visionary and Intelligent

As an Air sign, Aquarius loves to generate ideas and formulate a hypothesis. Cerebral and rational, Aquarius don't do emotions and intuition. They like to amaze others with their crazy yet progressive ideas. Aquarius also loves to talk about thoughts that can change the world, ideas that’ll progress society. These characteristics make Aquarius such compassionate, visionary, and progressive individuals.

As the 11^th zodiac, Aquarius retained some of the characteristics and personalities of the previous zodiacs. This placement makes them creative and free-spirited, valuing independence and freedom. They express their thoughts and ideas through an art piece or a poem. They don't follow the crowd and instead will deviate from it, forming their original craft.

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Very idealistic

With their progressive and visionary thoughts in mind, Aquarius loves to endanger themselves with idealism. They generate ideas and hypotheses, but sometimes, most of these ideas have no practical or realistic bearings. Aquarius thinks about many things, which can sometimes make them aloof and distant from other people.

Aquarius also tend to alienate themselves from other people. As a free-spirited zodiac, Aquarius loves to maintain their space. This need for space leads them to become unemotional and detached from other people. They tend to live their lives solitary and nomadic. Aquarius needs to learn that they need other people to keep them company.

Virgo And Aquarius As Lovers

The zodiac wheel reveals a lot about the relationship between zodiacs. Aside from the elements and planetary rulings, one can also look at the geometric relations, or aspects, like the signs complementary or antiscia to each other. Virgos can be complementary with Pisces, while Aquarius and Leo complement each other.. Or zodiacs that form a 60-degree angle form unique connections such as Taurus between Pisces and Cancer.

However, some zodiacs do not have any special connections at all. The relationship between Virgo and Aquarius represents such a lack of connection at all. Virgo and Aquarius may find it challenging to understand each other. One thing that unites them, however, would be their intellect and mental rapport with each other. Virgo and Aquarius may start from this and flourish their relationship forward.

1. Virgo Man/Aquarius Woman Relationship

In the Virgo Man/Aquarius Woman relationship, Virgo will lead the way and be the more dominant person in the relationship. He has a perfectionist attitude, which will guide the relationship. Virgo man also has some sharp intellect that makes him plan for their future. As an Earth sign, Virgo's plans will have some realistic aspects. He knows how to be practical, and he also knows how to save for their future. What would bring him closer to Aquarius would be her mysterious air and charm.

On the other hand, Aquarius women also share the same intellect as the Virgo man. She loves to think about a lot, and she has a natural curiosity to know everything there is in the world. She likes to hear different point-of-views, but she seldom changes her mind after hearing other people’s perspectives. She falls in love with a man capable of stimulating her intellect and providing her some mental rapport. Virgo man can provide this, making them quite an excellent match for each other.

The real challenge in this relationship will start even before they meet each other. Virgo man tends to be shy and aloof, content on his own company. Aquarius woman shares the same quality and will seldom approach anyone in the crowd. In case they happen to be a part of a large group, they can start by discussing some ideas here and there. They need to develop some intellectual connection for them to continue with the relationship. Otherwise, they’ll just pass by each other.

Marriage seems to be a bit far for a Virgo Man and an Aquarius Woman. They need to sort a lot of their differences to make their married life work. In case they become successful in fixing those, married life will be as difficult as they first met. Aquarius woman can generate ideas without practical applications, while Virgo contrasts. Aquarius woman might be too idealistic, while Virgo man might be too realistic. They need to meet halfway to make their relationship work.

2. Virgo Woman/Aquarius Man Relationship

The same case happens between a Virgo woman and an Aquarius man. They share little astrological connection, making their relationship difficult to handle. In traditional astrology, signs that form a 30-degree or 150-degree angle form a special connection, whereas some signs do not make any of these angles at all. This placement means that these zodiacs turned away from each other, out of line, and out of vision.

In this relationship, Virgo woman has some perfectionist tendencies. She sees every detail, and she won’t let those get past her. She'll often say what she thinks, which the Aquarius man appreciates. On the other hand, Aquarius man tends to see the world in an ideal manner. He can be a little hard to understand for the Virgo woman since he sees the world through idealism, while Virgo woman sees it through realism.

Virgo and Aquarius will find it hard to approach each other during the early stages of the relationship. Both of them tend to be shy and modest. Unless they discuss something that will arouse their intellects, they won't meet each other halfway. They can start from their main hobbies, or a coffee date, having some intellectual discussions.

If Virgo and Aquarius decide to pursue their relationship, their married life won’t be different either. They need to find some common ground to stabilize and maintain their relationship. Virgo woman will often point out the idealistic perspective of Aquarius man, while the Aquarius man will often get annoyed by the attentiveness of Virgo to details. They must learn how to communicate each other’s ideas well, to make their family and married life better.   

3. Virgo and Aquarius in Bed

 Nothing else would be different with Virgo and Aquarius in bed. They have a lot of differences that they fail even as sexual partners. First of all. Virgos and Aquarius tend to be some of the least active zodiacs when it comes to sex. They don’t even know how to satisfy one another in bed. They don't like experimenting, and they know nothing about the passion that drives sexual relations.

The only thing they find sexy about each other would be their intellects, nothing more. They satisfy themselves with intellectual discussions and building mental rapport. But with sex, the case would be hopeless.

When Virgo and Aquarius decide to have sex, they'll think about it a lot first. As intellectual human beings, they would tend to know what they can gain from sex. They'll plan and calculate every move, making sex boring since it’s a spontaneous activity. Their overthinking tendencies will rob the spice of sex, diminishing the little intensity that they have in the relationship.

To make their sexual relationship hot and spicy, Virgo and Aquarius must work together. Virgo must take the lead in having fast-forwarded sexual thinking, while Aquarius must be mellow and submissive. They need to get out of the way to make sex an exciting activity for them. This move may sound tough and difficult, but they need to adjust if they love each other that much. 

Virgo And Aquarius As Friends

 If Virgo and Aquarius don’t make a great love match, they don’t make them great friends either. They neither consider themselves as friends nor enemies. You can say that they make great acquaintances with each other. They can have each other's back when they need to, but Virgo and Aquarius must consider going to the zodiac they share some qualities with. For instance, Virgos should consider the opinion of their fellow Earth signs Taurus, Capricorn, or another Virgo. The same goes with Aquarius.

If they happen to transcend the barriers that divide them, Virgo and Aquarius can complement one another. Aquarius can teach Virgos how to let go of all that's holding them back, while Virgos can guide Aquarius on how to plant their feet on the ground. See? Aquarius needs to fly while Virgos will walk. Their significant differences come from that, and they both have a lot of things to learn from each other.

They can find some common ground to start their friendship. It can begin from things that they love, like intellectual discussions. Their friendship will start best at a research conference or an art gallery. They can share some insights regarding the things that interest them, and from there, friendship can grow.

Virgo And Aquarius At Work

The same relationship goes between Virgo and Aquarius at work. They can bring out the best and worst in each other, but one thing’s for sure – they complement each other, and they can be a force to reckon with if they join forces. In this relationship, Virgo and Aquarius can combine their qualities to achieve a common goal.

For instance, Virgos tend to have a more realistic and pragmatic approach in life. They never go into a situation unless they understood all the possible consequences. They'll calculate the pros and cons and decide what path will be the best for their company or job. On the other hand, Aquarius likes to think and formulate ideas all the time. Their placement in astrology makes them visionary and progressive thinkers.

When both these qualities combine, the best of both worlds will unite. Aquarius will generate ideas and formulate a hypothesis, while Virgos will bind those ideas to real-life situations. Think of it as the Aquarius having the business idea. They’ll think of the possible scenarios, while Virgos will turn those visions into reality.

Virgo and Aquarius make an ambitious pair. They can input ideas and thoughts, think about those ideas, and apply them to real life. Virgos will help Aquarius realize their visions, while Aquarius will fuel the pragmatic and practical Virgos.

Conclusion

Overall, Virgo and Aquarius don’t make a great match with each other. They have a lot of differences before they can go into a healthy relationship. They need to exert a lot of effort, and they must meet halfway to make this possible.

Virgos tend to see the details and dwell on them. Meanwhile, Aquarius sees the bigger picture. If they can learn how to unite those qualities, they can be an exciting pair. However, the road to a happy relationship will be challenging, and they must prepare for it.

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Karen Hyman

Karen is a Psychic Medium, a Professional Astrologer, a Spiritual Advisor, and a Life Coach who has been in this career for 19+ years. She specializes in numerology, tarot and oracle cards, twin flames, love & relationships, zodiac, horoscope, dreams interpretation, and astrology. She aims to provide comfort and assurance using her abilities to offer answers to those who seek professional guidance. Read More About Karen Here.