How do you know when a Scorpio man wants you back after a breakup? If he does, how do you hit restart and keep him for good?
The Scorpio man takes a long time to get over someone and almost always wants them back after a breakup. Although he may appear like he doesn’t care, there are obvious signs that show his intention to get back together.
The Scorpio man has a personality that is difficult to figure out, and it’s never easy to know what he wants. Not an active communicator, he keeps his feelings and thoughts to himself and will need time before he can open up to anyone.
Thus, you will have to dive deep into his psyche and know him on a much deeper level with a guide just as deep like Scorpio Man Secrets.
This article will help you figure out the Scorpio man’s personality and know when he wants you back after a breakup. I also added some tips to deal with his behavior and what to do when you decide to get back together.
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The complicated Scorpio man
First, let’s try to understand how the Scorpio man thinks and feels; we need to look at his personality as a Fixed Water sign. The complicated personality of the Scorpio man comes from the contradicting quality and element of his sign: fixed and stable versus flowy water.
The Scorpio man’s personality is also complex due to his ruling planets: the passionate and aggressive Mars and the aloof and mysterious Pluto. He is sensitive and emotional, but he tries to hide it behind a cool and calm demeanor.
The Scorpio man has a persistent and determined personality; he will pursue his goals at whatever cost. But he may give up or do something different and impulsive when his emotions are too much for him to control.
When in a relationship, the Scorpio man is loyal and committed to keeping his promises to his partner. He is not easy to give up on someone, remains solid against challenges, and is excellent at finding solutions to issues and problems in a relationship.
The Scorpio man leaves a relationship if he feels misunderstood, disrespected, mistrusted, and not accepted for who he is. He feels intense emotions that he can love his partner long after a breakup; if unresolved, these feelings can make him obsessive or carry a grudge.
He wants you back!
When a Scorpio man breaks up with you, there is a good chance that he will want you back after he’s spent some time away from you. He can break up with you on impulse brought about by pain or anger, but he will miss you and regret losing you once these emotions are gone.
Below are the obvious signs that a Scorpio man wants you back and how to deal with it:
He is in constant contact
The Scorpio man will be in constant communication with you if he intends to get back together. He acts casual about it because he fears rejection and wants to gauge your feelings first; you may receive drunk calls from him once or twice because he needs liquid courage to call you.
If your Scorpio ex makes random calls and sends you texts out of the blue, let him be but don’t ignore him. Be patient in answering his calls and responding to his messages, but keep him at a friendly distance; wait for him to make the first move while you enjoy getting to know him again.
He reconnects with your family and friends
The Scorpio man who wants you back not only keeps in touch with you but also with the people close to you. This is how he shows you that he cares for you and that he’s not closing the door on the idea of you two finding your way back together.
Staying close to your family and friends is also a way for the Scorpio man to keep tabs on you without letting you get an idea of his intentions. He wants to look cool and aloof, but he still wants to know how you are doing, who you’re seeing, and other updates in your life.
He tries to see you often
The Scorpio man will try to see you often if he wants to get back together. He will hesitate to ask you out on an official date, so he will make excuses to see you; he may ask you for a favor, seek advice, or inquire about a mutual friend or common interest.
You will also bump into your Scorpio ex several times because he tries to see you by accident in the places he knows you go to. If this makes you uncomfortable, you can talk to him about it or even avoid him altogether; if you like that he’s trying to see you often, ask him to have coffee the next time you see him.
He is hot and cold
The Scorpio man who wants you back may confuse you with his hot and cold behavior when he acts interested one day but distant the next. Getting these mixed signals from your ex shows the internal battle within his contradicting personality.
The Scorpio man who has decided to leave you for rational reasons will fight with the emotional side in him that still feels love for you and is missing you. Allow him to express his feelings and don’t make it a big deal if he becomes distant sometimes; accept this part of his personality and learn to live with it.
He tries to make you jealous
The Scorpio man often enters a rebound relationship to get over his ex and to test how she’ll react to this new person in his life. His emotional needs after a breakup are so all over the place, and he can’t control and deal with them by being alone.
Tell the Scorpio man how you feel about him seeing a new woman after your breakup. Be honest and vulnerable about expressing your feelings so that he will show you the courtesy of being honest to you too.
He reinvents himself
One way of coping with a breakup is for the Scorpio man to do a complete overhaul of his life; this is his way of keeping busy and catching your attention. He may change his career, get new hobbies, move to a new house, and go through other significant life changes.
Let the Scorpio man know that you notice and approve of him reinventing himself by commending his actions and complimenting his hard work and dedication. Tell him you support him in taking these steps to better himself; this will give him the confidence to approach and reconnect with you.
He reminds you of the past
The Scorpio man intent on winning you back will remind you of your past relationship and the memories you had together. If he still has feelings for you, his emotions will be too much for him when you are around, and he’ll be nostalgic.
Show the Scorpio man that you miss the good old days as much as he does, and share some of the things you remember of your time together. Letting him know that you cherish these moments will boost his spirits and motivate him to ask you to have him back.
Keep him for good!
Your Scorpio man wants you back; now what? Here are ways to restart your relationship on the right path and prevent him from leaving you again.
You can also get started with finding out the mistakes that killed your romance with your Scorpio man in Scorpio Man Secrets to avoid committing them again.
Think and talk
Don’t rush into getting back together with the Scorpio man without going over your relationship issues. No matter how much you love each other at this point, your unresolved issues in the past are still there and will resurface once you have settled into your relationship and your feelings have settled down.
Work with your Scorpio man to think and talk about your relationship's past, present, and future. Understand each other’s wants and needs and learn to compromise; don’t give in to everything that the other wants because it can lead to resentment and bitterness in the future.
Keep moving forward
Once you’ve resolved all your past issues, learn to let go and forget about them. Bringing up the past when you are facing a relationship problem will only make your current issues bigger and cause each other pain and frustration.
The things you should be taking with you as you go forward are only the happy and loving memories of the past. Learn to forgive your man and yourself for past mistakes and try your best to keep yourself from doing them again.
Enjoy this fresh start with the Scorpio man, and don’t take things too seriously that you forget to have fun with him. Learn to let go of the urge to control and make everything perfect because, reality check, no relationship is perfect.
You and your Scorpio man should know when to take a step back from the pressure of getting along and spending time together. All relationships go through rocky roads and twisting paths; having fun and not stressing over your issues help you and your partner stay stronger against life’s challenges.
Depending on what stained the once flawless connection between you and your Scorpio man, you may be unsure if he's really serious about winning you back into his life.
Relationship Astrologer Anna Kovach's Scorpio Man Secrets guide reveals all of your Scorpio man's motives, including the hidden ones.
Knowing his true intentions will give you the assurance you need.